Last night, as I was watching one of the first episodes of the hit TV series LOST, Jack (main character on the show) brought to light a different way of dealing with fear. He said, “Only let fear in for five seconds, and after that you do what you need to do, completely fearless.” Granted my plane didn’t crash on a deserted island, but I can still relate to his advice.
My first day on the job at Meador. Frazzled nerves and a weak soy latte were all I could ingest on
the way to work. My mind was clouded with questions that I had no answers to: Am I wearing the right clothes? Will my coworkers be nice to me? Should I even talk to them, or should I concentrate solely on what they give me? What will I even be doing? As a temp worker, I was sure some filing would be in order, probably a bit of tedious computer work, as well. I pictured this massive room with rows of files towering over me. I shook the thought out of my head, but just as soon as the image started to fade, another dreadful sight arose in my mind’s eye: a dimly lit room filled with cubicles, and inside each one was a run-down human being, eroded away at the core from hours of staring at a computer – and I was one of them.
By the time reality took back control, I was in the parking lot of my new 8-to-5 abode. Fifteen minutes early. Good. Already sending a statement: I’m punctual. Now, all I have to do is walk in. Easier said than done. After giving myself a decent pep talk, I began my twenty-pace trek toward the front doors. This was it. No turning back.
A blast of cool, crisp air greeted me as I slowly entered the lobby. The receptionist, however, greeted me quite the opposite. With a warm smile and an even warmer voice she said, “Good morning and welcome. We are so glad to have you here.” My sweaty hands began to dry with her welcoming salutation. I had only been in this place less than a minute and already my nervousness was beginning to subside.
I was led into an office with no cubicles, next to the filing room with no towering rows of cascading files, only two, normal-sized rows of organized files. There were no run-down human beings either, only a nice woman who just smiled and quietly listened to country music. It seems that fear of the unknown had struck again; preying on all the unconfident temps out there. Well, it didn’t have to be like that. I shouldn’t have let the fear in that long and assumed the worst.
With that said, let’s put this into perspective. It’s your first day on the job. Whether you’ve worked before or not, you’re most likely a bit nervous. Now, let the fear in, but only for five seconds. Slowly count to five with your eyes closed and let your mind wander. Once those five seconds are up, that fear is gone, and now you’re left with rational thought. Consider the following: a) The company you’re going to work for wants you to work there, otherwise, they wouldn’t have hired you. b) Offices aren’t like the ones you’ve seen on television (besides The Office, ha). c) Confidence is key; it’ll let you in plenty of doors as long as you have it.
As long as you know you can do the job, there’s nothing to worry about. Have confidence and you won’t be LOST.

What are you most fearful of when starting a new job? Any tips for helping to overcome the-new-guy anxiety?
Stay tuned for more musings from a day in the life of a temporary employee.
- Ryan the Temp
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